1. Remember your most important sex organ is your brain
“It sounds obvious, but the best sex happens when you have a deep connection with your partner,” Annabelle says. “Half of cis men (48%) and 39% of cis women reckon that love is the most important factor in achieving sexual happiness, according to research by Lovehoney.”
Whether you’re actually in love the person you’re having sex with or it’s just a casual fling, a good connection undoubtedly makes sex wayyyy better because you’ll be comfortable, relaxed and trusting.
2. Communication is super important
“So, you’ve met that special person and are madly in love, but the sex isn’t that great. The only solution to this is to tell them,” she explains. “It’s vital you keep the channels of communication open to enjoy good sex. Don’t be afraid to say, ‘That really doesn’t work for me.’
“Talk about what really DOES turn you on, and allow them to do the same.” If you do this in a positive way,